Mary Ellen MacDonald, age 87, passed away peacefully on February 5, 2026, at Peter D. Clark Nursing Home in Ottawa, Ontario with her husband Peter by her side. Born on March 15,1938, she was the daughter of the late Ernest and Ellen (Nichols) McKinlay.
She leaves behind her loving husband Peter and daughter Wendy MacDonald of Belleville, Ontario. She is also survived by her sisters: Liz Boudreau and Susan (Brad) Atkinson, both of Wedgeport; and Joyce (Ray) Boles of Stratford, PEI. Besides her parents, Mary Ellen was predeceased by her brothers, Jack and Tom and sister Margaret.
Born in Yarmouth, Nova Scotia, she lived life to the fullest, starting an early and brief career as Little Miss Sunshine on the local radio station. She later joined the Armed Forces and met the love of her life, Peter. She travelled by his side to his many military postings, spending time in Belgium, Germany, France and several locations across Canada, creating life long bonds and friendships she treasured and nurtured for as long as she was able.
This lifestyle lead to many years on the road, even after retirement, spending time with family and friends all across the continent. The stories she had to tell were many from a life well lived, creating moments that lingered in the mind, friends that became family and having no regrets because she did it all.
She had a passion for politics and assisted many politicians with their aspirations and goals. She always took an interest in the world around her, the people surrounding her and those that mattered to her. She had a love of books; poems and music touched her soul. Music continued to be a comfort when her words were lost. Her love of life is the memory we ask you to hold on to.
“A life well lived is a legacy, of joy and pride and pleasure. A living, lasting memory our grateful hearts will treasure.“
Cremation has taken place and a memorial service and burial will take place in the spring.
Donations in memory of Mary Ellen may be made to the charity of your choice.
Digital Guestbook
Joanne Wallace
Susan and Bill MacKinlay
Dear Peter and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Frances Knight
A full life, well-lived indeed, with a loving partner - what more could anyone wish for? So many happy memories which we all will treasure, but especially Peter, who shared that life. Mary Ellen will be remembered and she will be missed.
Nora Muise
My deepest sympathies Peter. I always looked forward to your visits. I loved Mary Ellen ♥️ & have very fond memories of our time spent together. Sending lots of love & hugs.
Sandra Fitzgerald
Peter so very sorry for your loss, I lived next door to MaryEllen I’m Joyce and Susan age but remember you and your wife. When you would come home . Sending prayers and hugs.
Phillip grant
My deepest condolences for you Peter. This absolutely broke my heart when I found out. I have so many fond memories of going with you and her to air shows. She will forever be in my heart.
Mary & Ray Hall
Mary Ellen & Peter were our next door neighbours in Trenton, Ontario and subsequently we were transferred to Nova Scotia where we got to visit Mary Ellen's hometown on a few occasions. In time we rejoined Mary Ellen & Peter in Ottawa. We were very close when we lived in the same locales and they were the greatest baby-sitters. R.I.P. dear friend. Love Mary, Ray, Chris.
Jodi MacKinnon-Leblanc
Sending love and prayers to you Peter, and your family. Mary Ellen was so so kind to me, she will be missed
Christine Raleigh (née Knight)
My heartfelt and sincerest of condolences to Peter, Wendy, Angie, Susan , Liz and family for such a profound loss. I have such heart warming and wonderful memories from our occasional visits in my younger years . Mary Ellen was such a warm, compassionate and vital life force that I am sure lives on in those closest and dearest to her. Sending love and comfort your way 💖
Germana
My condolences Peter
Peter, please accept my condolences. Mary Ellen was one of a kind and part of our family. I have lots of happy memories with the both of you. Hugs and Love, Joanne